Friday, 20 February 2015

Toronto Rock 13, New England Black Wolves 12

Gord and I are season ticket holders for the Toronto Rock lacrosse team games ... the Rock is a professional lacrosse franchise in the National Lacrosse League (NLL).

Going into tonight's game, the Rock was in first place and were playing the New England Black Wolves (until last year they were the Philadelphia Wings).


We watched the teams warm up.

The Black Wolves
The Rock
Iggy, the Rock mascot

It was Superhero Night and everyone was encouraged to dress up as their favourite superhero (Gord and I didn't).

Fat Bastard Burrito Co., Scarborough, ON

I had a seminar to conduct this afternoon in Scarborough and I had lunch beforehand.  There was a Fat Bastard Burrito Co. near my client's site.  I love burritos and have had them from other Fat Bastard locations and liked them.


It was REALLY REALLY cold in the restaurant.   I kept my coat on while I was eating.  My toes honestly were freezing and I could see my breath.  Not a comfortable dining experience. [Update:  I received a message that said "the heating systems went down apparently and was out of our control due to the freezing temps."]

I ordered what I always get ... a chicken burrito.

I ordered a "big" burrito, which is their medium size

It seems like cold is the theme here because though the outside of the burrito was grilled, everything else was cold ... the rice, the beans and the chicken ... and they shouldn't have been.  I was tempted to ask them to heat it in the microwave but I wasn't sure how it would turn out.

I won't be back!

Fat Bastard Burrito Co. on Urbanspoon

Tuesday, 17 February 2015

Book ~ "Hurricane Hazel: A Life with Purpose" (2014) Hazel McCallion and Robert Brehl

From Goodreads ~ In 1978, Hazel McCallion defeated a popular incumbent to win election as Mayor of Mississauga, a rising city outside of Toronto. No one would have foreseen that the indomitable McCallion would become so wildly popular she would remain mayor until 2014. McCallion made Mississauga into a world-class city, and along the way has become one of the best-known and most loved mayors in the world. 

 In her memoir, McCallion writes about her early years as the feisty mayor of a growing city; about her battles with politicians and business leaders; about putting people and her city first; and puts to rest the more challenging stories and crises from her career. 

The girl from Gaspe landed in the city of Mississauga and earned her nickname “Hurricane.” But, as McCallion says, hurricanes destroy but Hazel McCallion’s role was to build a small city on the outskirts of Toronto into a powerful city all its own, as the Globe and Mail deemed it “the City That Hazel Built.” Indeed, as the incumbent mayor of Mississauga since 1978, when horses and cows still grazed outside the city’s civic centre, Hazel’s run as the leader of one of the fastest growing cities in Canada has been nothing short of remarkable. 

"Hurricane Hazel: A Life with Purpose" tells, in McCallion’s own words, the story of her life growing up in Gaspe, where she played hockey as a girl, and moving to Ontario. The book is the story of Hazel’s political and business life, with all of its bumps and bruises along the way. Honest, bold, and as straightforward as the woman herself. 

Hazel McCallion was born on February 14, 1921, on the Gaspé Coast of Quebec. After beginning her career in Montreal with an engineering and contracting company, she was transferred to Toronto in 1942, where she helped set up the local office.  She married her husband, Sam McCallion (he passed away in 1997), in 1951 and they had three children.

In 1967, she left the corporate world and devoted her career to politics. ... and what a career that was!  She recently retired as the mayor of Mississauga, ON.  First elected in November 1978, she is the longest serving mayor in the city's history after serving for 36 years at the time of her retirement in last year (2014).

She has played a leading role for women in politics. She is the first woman to hold such significant positions as President of the Streetsville and District Chamber of Commerce; President of the Anglican Young Peoples' Association of Canada; Mayor of Streetsville and Mayor of Mississauga. She was chosen one of the "American Women of the Year" in Who's Who of American Women (which refers to North American women).

At age 94. she is still feisty, optimistic and energetic.  She lives alone and does her own housework and gardening.  Her interests include sports (especially hockey ... she play professional hockey in Montreal for $5 a game) and fishing.  While she was mayor, she worked up to 100 hours a week.  Her days started about 5:30am and she headed to bed about 11pm.  What drove her was that she wanted to make Mississauga a better place.

I hope I have as much energy and enthusiasm as she does when I'm her age!

Monday, 16 February 2015

Happy Family Day!

Today is a statutory holiday here in Ontario.

Enjoy and spend some time with your family!

Sunday, 15 February 2015

Book ~ "Untied: A Memoir of Family, Fame, and Floundering" (2011) Meredith Baxter

From Goodreads ~ Meredith Baxter is a beloved and iconic television actress, most well-known for her enormously popular role as hippie mom, Elyse Keaton, on "Family Ties". Her warmth, humor, and brilliant smile made her one of the most popular women on television, with millions of viewers following her on the small screen each week. Yet her success masked a tumultuous personal story and a harrowing private life. For the first time, Baxter is ready to share her incredible highs (working with Robert Redford, Doris Day, Lana Turner, and the cast of "Family Ties"), and lows (a thorny relationship with her mother, a difficult marriage to David Birney, a bout with breast cancer), finally revealing the woman behind the image.

From her childhood in Hollywood, growing up the daughter of actress and co-creator of "One Day at a Time" Whitney Blake, Baxter became familiar with the ups and downs of show business from an early age. After wholeheartedly embracing the 60s counterculture lifestyle, she was forced to rely on her acting skills after her first divorce left her a 22-year-old single mother of two. Baxter began her professional career with supporting roles in the critically panned horror film "Ben", and in the political thriller "All the President's Men"..

More lucrative work soon followed on the small screen. Baxter starred with actor David Birney as the title characters in controversial sitcom "Bridget Loves Bernie". While the series only lasted a year, her high-profile romance with Birney lasted 15 volatile and unhappy years. Hiding the worst of her situation from even those closest to her, Baxter’s career flourished as her self-esteem and family crumbled. Her successful run as Nancy on "Family" was followed by her enormously popular role on "Family Ties", and dozens of well-received television movies.

After a bitter divorce and custody battle with Birney, Baxter increasingly relied on alcohol as a refuge, and here speaks candidly of her decision to take her last drink in 1990.

And while another ruinous divorce to screenwriter Michael Blodgett taxed Baxter’s strength and confidence, she has emerged from her experiences with the renewed self-assurance, poise, and understanding that have enabled her to find a loving, respectful relationship with Nancy Locke, and to speak about it openly.

A couple weeks ago I saw Meredith Baxter on Oprah:  Where are They Now and was reminded about her memoir, which I thought would be an interesting read ... and it is.

Baxter is one of three children and her parents split up when she was young.  Her mother, Whitney Blake had some success as an actress but put her acting dreams and ambitions before her children.  She wouldn't let her kids call her "Mom" ... they had to call her "Whitney".  Her mother's second husband, Jack, was a talent agent who also helped Baxter with her career.

Baxter has been married four times and has five children (from her first two marriages).  She was quite young when she married the first time.  Her second marriage was to her Bridget Loves Bernie co-star, David Birney.  She portrays him as being an abuser (physically, emotionally and verbally) which she assumed was her fault (Birney has denied the abuse).  In 2002, she realized she was gay and has been married to Nancy Locke since 2013 (they have been together since 2005).

She's had a successful career as an actress mostly in made-for-TV movies and TV series.  She details her use of drugs when she was younger and her later dependency on alcohol (she hasn't had a drink in many years).  She's made some bad relationship decisions with husbands and affairs (some with married men).  Obviously her dysfunctional upbringing has influenced who she is and the decisions she has made ... hopefully she'll continually to learn, be strong and use those experiences in a more positive manner.

I liked the writing style and thought it flowed well.  As a head's up, there is swearing (she likes to use the F-bomb a lot).

Saturday, 14 February 2015

Toronto Rock 14, Minnesota Swarm 9

Gord and I are season ticket holders for the Toronto Rock lacrosse team games ... the Rock is a professional lacrosse franchise in the National Lacrosse League (NLL).

Going into tonight's game, the Rock was in first place and were playing the Minnesota Swarm ... they had beaten Minnesota last night in Minnesota.


Scotty Newlands sang the national anthems.

The 3 Brewers Restaurant Micro-Brewery, Toronto, ON (Yonge Street)

After we saw Once, Gord and I had supper at 3 Brewers (at Yonge/ Dundas) ... it was jammed.

"Once", Ed Mirvish Theatre, Toronto

Gord and I saw Once this afternoon (the 2pm show).

Set in modern day Dublin, "Once", is the story of a Guy who gave up on his music - and his love - and the Girl who inspired him to dream again. This irresistibly breathtaking production is performed by an extraordinary all-Canadian cast of actor-musicians who sing, dance and play their hearts out live on stage. 

Directed and choreographed by the brilliant team of Tony Award winner John Tiffany and Steven Hoggett, "Once" will dazzle you with its originality, wit and unforgettable music. 

Featuring all of the magical songs from the critically-acclaimed film, including the Oscar-winning "Falling Slowly," this achingly beautiful, joyously uplifting show draws you in from the very first note, and never lets you go. Everyone's falling for "Once" …come and find out why. 

Gord had gotten the tickets through an auction for the United Way at work.

It is playing at the Ed Mirvish Theatre on Yonge Street until May 31.


If you get there early, you can go up on stage, which is set up like a pub.  You can even order a drink from the bar on stage.  The actors gradually come onto the stage.  At 1:50pm, they started singing and playing their instruments and the audience is led off the stage.  At 2:15pm, the lights went down and the story began.  There was a 15 minute intermission and Gord and I went up on the stage to check it out ... very cool.

I enjoyed the play and think the actors did a fine job.  There was humor and sorrow.  I liked the music ... the livelier tunes were fun and the ballads were heartfelt.  You can check them out here.

There are 12 in the cast and they are all almost always on stage.  The actors are also the musicians and they play instruments including guitars, a piano, violins/fiddles, drums, etc.   When they are not part of the action, they are sitting in chairs on the left and right side of the stage.  They also move the props around (tables, chairs, etc.) and are subtle or more in-your-face about it depending on the scene.

Some of the characters are Czech and when they speak in their language, they speak in English but there are subtitles above them in Czech which was interesting.

It's apparently based on a movie and Gord and I are going to check it out.

Friday, 13 February 2015

Trius wine club - February 2015

I picked up our February 2015 Trius wine club box today ... they tried to deliver it yesterday but we weren't home.

Gord and I have been members of the Trius Wine Club for over ten years.

Every month, 2 bottles of our best wine will be delivered to your door along with Winemaker Craig McDonald’s tasting notes and Chef Frank Dodd’s recipes.

The cost is $46 a month and it's only available in Ontario.


Here's what we got this month ...


  • Trius Sauvignon Blanc 2013 ($14.95) ~ The recipe included that pairs with it is Minted Peas and Beans on Toast with Bocconcini
  • Trius Cabernet Franc 2013 ($14.95) - The recipe included that pairs with it is Pork Tenderloin with Garlic and Herbs

Thursday, 12 February 2015

Book ~ "Secret Lives" (2010) Diane Chamberlain

From Goodreads ~ Actress Eden Riley's decision to make a film about her mother plunges her into a shattering confrontation with her own past, irrevocably altering her life and the lives of those she loves. Her mother, Katherine Swift, was a renowned children's author who died when Eden was very young. Now Eden, recovering from a divorce and disillusioned with her glamorous life, returns to the childhood home of the mother she barely knew. She moves in with her uncle, archaeologist Kyle Swift and his wife, Louise.

Eden gets more than she bargained for when Kyle gives her the journal her mother had kept from the age of thirteen until her death. Eden is spellbound by the powerfully written, intimate diary that chronicles a life of hardship, madness and tragedy. But her fascination turns to horror when she discovers the shocking truth about her mother's life.

Eden turns for comfort to Ben Alexander, Kyle's colleague, not knowing that Ben has a secret of his own that could ruin Eden and her career. Now Eden must make a heartbreaking decision as she struggles to lay the ghosts of the past to rest and come to terms with her own future.

Shifting gracefully between Eden's world and Katherine's, "Secret Lives" seduces with the power of its images and the lyricism of its prose. 

Eden is an actress who has recently gone through a divorce.  Her mother, Kate, had written books for children and had died when Eden was young.  Kate had been considered an oddball and Eden decides to make a movie to show everyone what she was really like.  Eden moves back to Virginia for the summer to live with her uncle, Kyle (her mother's brother), and his wife, Lou, to write the screenplay.  In addition to speaking with the locals who knew her mother, Kyle also gives Eden her mother's journals, which she'd started when she was 13.  As she reads them, she discovers some shocking things about her mother.

In the meantime, Eden meets Ben, who works for Kyle.  Ben suffered a tragedy within the last two years and is grateful to Kyle for the job.  Eden and Ben fall in love but Ben's past could rip them apart.

Despite the romance between Eden and Ben, this book covers some very heavy subject matter.  There was a lot going including mental illness, suicide, child molestation, incest, agoraphobia, child abuse and more.

I liked the writing style.  It is written in third person perspective.  The book jumps back and forth from the present with Eden's life and the past with Kate's journal (Kate's journal is dated and in italics).  This book was originally published in 1991 and the author intentionally didn't update it so it is before the days of cell phones, laptops and the Internet.  As a head's up, there is swearing and adult activity.

I questioned Eden's priorities when she found out what Ben's secret was.  Yes, she believed he was innocent but the magnitude of what had happened to him had the possibility of causing repercussions for her career and could give her ex-husband ammunition to seek sole custody of their young daughter.

Topbox - February 2015

My February Topbox arrived today.

For only $12 a month, you will receive a Topbox with 4 carefully selected, indulgent, beauty products. Then test the products in the comfort of your own home.


Here's what was in it ...



    Total value = $44.10

    Island Foods, Toronto, ON (Don Mills Road)

    There is an Island Foods in my 'hood and I love their chicken rotis.  Stacey, my colleague, also likes their rotis so we've been trying to figure out how to get there for lunch.

    She and I had a meeting this afternoon in Concord and she suggested that we have lunch along the way at Island Foods at their Don Mills Road location.  I didn't know they had a Don Mills Road location ... whoohoo!


    We both ordered chicken rotis with "gravy" on top.


    It tasted a little different than the ones I've had at their other location (a stronger curry flavour) and it was delicious!

    Island Foods on Urbanspoon

    Wednesday, 11 February 2015

    Ipsy Glam Bag - February 2015

    I received my February Ipsy Glam Bag today.
    • 4 to 5 beauty products in a collectible makeup bag 
    • Monthly videos showing you how to get the Look 
    • Win free products in contests and giveaways

    Subscriptions are $10US a month or $110US for a year.  Shipping is free in the U.S. and $4.95US per month to Canada.  It was $187.87CN for the year which worked out to $15.66CN a month.


    Here's what was in it:

    Cool make-up bag!


    Total value: $74.79US (excluding the bag)

    Canyon Creek, Etobicoke, ON

    I was at a kiosk at a client's site in Mississauga today from 10am to 2pm.

    I had a late lunch afterwards at Canyon Creek on the Queensway.

    I sat in a booth on the dining room side

    Anthony started me off with some warm bread.

    Yum!

    It's been about 15 years since I've been to this Canyon Creek and I remember they had a very delicious pork chop that I ordered whenever I was there.  It wasn't on the menu so I ordered a Southern Chicken Sandwich (minus the cole slaw and jalapenos) and fries.