Goodreads ~ Meredith Baxter is a beloved and iconic television actress, most well-known for her enormously popular role as hippie mom, Elyse Keaton, on "Family Ties". Her warmth, humor, and brilliant smile made her one of the most popular women on television, with millions of viewers following her on the small screen each week. Yet her success masked a tumultuous personal story and a harrowing private life. For the first time, Baxter is ready to share her incredible highs (working with Robert Redford, Doris Day, Lana Turner, and the cast of "Family Ties"), and lows (a thorny relationship with her mother, a difficult marriage to David Birney, a bout with breast cancer), finally revealing the woman behind the image.
From her childhood in Hollywood, growing up the daughter of actress and co-creator of "One Day at a Time" Whitney Blake, Baxter became familiar with the ups and downs of show business from an early age. After wholeheartedly embracing the 60s counterculture lifestyle, she was forced to rely on her acting skills after her first divorce left her a 22-year-old single mother of two. Baxter began her professional career with supporting roles in the critically panned horror film "Ben", and in the political thriller "All the President's Men"..
More lucrative work soon followed on the small screen. Baxter starred with actor David Birney as the title characters in controversial sitcom "Bridget Loves Bernie". While the series only lasted a year, her high-profile romance with Birney lasted 15 volatile and unhappy years. Hiding the worst of her situation from even those closest to her, Baxter’s career flourished as her self-esteem and family crumbled. Her successful run as Nancy on "Family" was followed by her enormously popular role on "Family Ties", and dozens of well-received television movies.
After a bitter divorce and custody battle with Birney, Baxter increasingly relied on alcohol as a refuge, and here speaks candidly of her decision to take her last drink in 1990.
And while another ruinous divorce to screenwriter Michael Blodgett taxed Baxter’s strength and confidence, she has emerged from her experiences with the renewed self-assurance, poise, and understanding that have enabled her to find a loving, respectful relationship with Nancy Locke, and to speak about it openly.
A couple weeks ago I saw Meredith Baxter on Oprah: Where are They Now and was reminded about her memoir, which I thought would be an interesting read ... and it is.
Baxter is one of three children and her parents split up when she was young. Her mother, Whitney Blake had some success as an actress but put her acting dreams and ambitions before her children. She wouldn't let her kids call her "Mom" ... they had to call her "Whitney". Her mother's second husband, Jack, was a talent agent who also helped Baxter with her career.
Baxter has been married four times and has five children (from her first two marriages). She was quite young when she married the first time. Her second marriage was to her Bridget Loves Bernie co-star, David Birney. She portrays him as being an abuser (physically, emotionally and verbally) which she assumed was her fault (Birney has denied the abuse). In 2002, she realized she was gay and has been married to Nancy Locke since 2013 (they have been together since 2005).
She's had a successful career as an actress mostly in made-for-TV movies and TV series. She details her use of drugs when she was younger and her later dependency on alcohol (she hasn't had a drink in many years). She's made some bad relationship decisions with husbands and affairs (some with married men). Obviously her dysfunctional upbringing has influenced who she is and the decisions she has made ... hopefully she'll continually to learn, be strong and use those experiences in a more positive manner.
I liked the writing style and thought it flowed well. As a head's up, there is swearing (she likes to use the F-bomb a lot).