From Amazon ~ In Complete Without Kids, Licensed Clinical Psychologist Ellen L. Walker examines the often-ignored question of what it means to be childfree, by choice or by circumstance, in a family-focused society. Recognizing that there is no one childfree adult, the author guides the reader through the positive and negative aspects of childfree living, taking into consideration the different issues faced by men or women, couples or singles, whether gay or straight. As a woman who is childfree by choice, Walker draws upon her personal experience while also offering the reader numerous interviews with other childfree adults, revealing behind-the-scenes factors that influenced their personal journeys. She approaches the tough-decision making process of whether or not to have children from a biological, historical, and societal perspective, offering valuable information on:- The unique set of problems that childfree adults face simply due to living in a culture that celebrates babies and traditional families
- Methods to cope with the pressure to have children from media, family, and friends in a healthy way
- How to create balance and approach the leisure time allowed by a childfree lifestyle
- Financial, health, and personal benefits associated with childfree living.
Offering support, guidance, and thought-provoking questions, Complete Without Kids is a productive guide for any reader considering the childfree path.
This was an interesting book ... I enjoyed it.
I've always known that I didn't want kids. When I was 30, I chose to do something about it ... and I've never regretted it. I don't feel like I missed out on anything.
I was the oldest of three kids and it fell to me quite often when I was growing up that I was taking care of my brother and sister. So in a way, I feel like I've already raised kids and experienced that responsibility, thanks!
When I told my mother many years ago that I wasn't going to have kids, she said I was being selfish. If I'm being selfish in choosing not to bring unwanted kids into the world then I guess I was and still am. But I'm okay with that.
I love having my freedom to do what I want. Life is too short not to. One of the stats in the book says that parents of two kids devote 7.5 hours a day taking care of their kids. I choose to spend those 7.5 hours a day doing as I choose instead.
I've unconsciously surrounded myself with people who don't have kids ... most of my friends don't have any or they are older and on their own.
I have my kitties ... they are my kids and my life is complete with them.