“Canada Is Not For Sale - Remembering Stompin’ Tom Connors”, Horseshoe Tavern, Toronto, ON

Gord and I attended the Canada Is Not For Sale - Remembering Stompin’ Tom Connors event this evening with my friend, Rosanna, at the Horseshoe Tavern (Queen Street W/Spadina Avenue). 

Tom was fiercely proud of Canada’s independence, culture, and history. He spent his life celebrating what made this country unique, and he had no patience for anything that undermined it. He famously rejected the idea of chasing American success in the music industry, so the thought of Canada losing its sovereignty would have him stomping harder than ever.

He’d likely remind folks that Canada isn’t just some northern extension of the U.S.—we’ve got our own identity, our own stories, and a whole lot of people who wouldn’t take kindly to being told otherwise. And knowing Tom, he wouldn’t just be upset about the idea—he’d turn it into a rousing anthem that had people raising a pint and singing along.

Come celebrate the legacy of Stompin' Tom Connors and by extension, our Canadian identity, with the band Tom played with most often, Whiskeyjack, Billy MacInnis and some very special guests!

Rosanna, me and Gord

Songs by Stompin' Tom were sung along with other songs by Canadians. It was a popular event and the bar was jammed! The sound wasn't great at times, though ... it could have been louder especially when they were speaking on stage.

Score on Queen, Toronto, ON

Gord and I had an early supper today at Score on Queen. They opened in September and it's in the formerly historic Black Bull Tavern (at Queen Street W and Peter Street).

Book ~ "Dangerous Ends Dangerous Ends" (2017) Alex Segura

From Goodreads ~ Pete Fernandez has settled into an easy if somewhat boring life as a PI. He takes pictures of cheating husbands. He tracks criminals who've skipped bail and he attends weekly AA meetings The days of chasing murderous killers are behind him. Or are they?

When his sometimes partner, Kathy Bentley, approaches him with a potential new client, Pete balks. Not because he doesn't need the money but because the case involves Gaspar Varela, a former Miami police officer serving a life sentence for the murder of his wife - one of the most infamous crimes in Miami history. The client? None other than Varela's daughter, Maya, who's doggedly supported her father's claims of innocence.

As Pete and Kathy wade into a case that no one wants, they also find themselves in the crosshairs of Los Enfermos, a bloodthirsty gang of pro-Castro killers and drug dealers looking to wipe Pete off the Miami map. As if trying to exonerate Varela wasn't enough, they find themselves entangled in something even older and more surprising - a bloody, political hit ordered by Fidel Castro himself, that left a still-healing scar on Pete - and his dead father's - past.

Pete is a former newspaper reporter and editor in Miami. He eventually got fired and is now working as a PI following cheating husbands. Kathy, his friend and former newspaper colleague, is now working freelance and writing books. She gets approached to investigate the death of Carmen, a wife and mother who was murdered ten years ago. Gaspar, her husband and an ex-cop, is in prison for killing her. He's always maintained his innocence as has Maya, his daughter. Maya hires Kathy (and Pete) to find out who really killed her mother and assures that Kathy will be able to write a book about it, regardess of the outcome. This gets them tangled up with Los Enfermos, a pro-Castro gang in Miami, who want to put a stop to them.

This is the third in the Pete Fernandez series (I read the first ones in the series in the last couple of weeks) and I liked it ... two more to go! It works as a stand alone but I'd recommend you read the others first to get the background. It is written in third person perspective with the focus on Pete. It jumped back and forth in time, starting in the late 1950s in Cuba with Pete's grandfather in Cuba (the chapters are labeled). There is a lot of violence ... Pete doesn't get beat up as much as he has in the past, though. As a head's up, there is a lot of swearing.

Honeycomb (aka Newfie) knitted mittens

I just finished knitting a pair of Honeycomb (aka Newfie) mittens to donate ... the colours are black and blue.

I used 4 ply yarn and 5mm double pointed needles.

Wrist

1. With A, cast on 42 sts
2. Knit 1, purl 1 for 18 rows
3. Purl
4. Purl, increasing 2 stitches on each needle for a total of 48 stitches

Pattern

1.  *Knit 4 with B, slip 2 purlwise with A*, repeat to the end of row
2. Repeat this row 4 more times (5 in total)
3. Purl 2 rows with A
4. Knit 1 with B, * slip 2 purlwise with A, knit 4 with B*, repeat to the last three stitches, knit 3 with B
5. Repeat this row 4 more times (5 in total)
6. Purl 2 rows with A
7.  *Knit 4 with B, slip 2 purlwise with A*, repeat to the end of row
8. Repeat this row 4 more times (5 in total)
9. Purl 2 rows with A
10. Knit 1 with B, * slip 2 purlwise with A, knit 4 with B*, repeat to the last three stitches, knit 3 with B
11. Repeat this row 4 more times (5 in total)
12. Purl 2 rows with A

Thumb

1. In step 12 above, purl 2, put 7 stitches on a stitch holder for the thumb and cast on 7 stitches, purl to the end.  Purl 1 row.

Mitten

1. Knit the pattern until long enough (I did 6)
2. Knit 1 row
3. *Knit 4, knit 2 together*, repeat to the end
4. Knit 2 rows
5. *Knit 3, knit 2 together*, repeat to the end
6. Knit 2 rows
7. *Knit 2, knit 2 together*, repeat to the end
8. Knit 2 rows
9. *Knit 2 together*, repeat to the end
10. Thread the yarn through remaining the loops and pull tight
11. Weave end inside

Thumb

1. With A, pick up the 7 stitches from the holder
2. Pick up 7 stitches around the thumb hole for a total of 14 stitches
3. Knit to fit length of thumb
4. Knit 2 together all around
5. Thread the yarn through the remaining loops and pull tight
6. Weave end inside

Book ~ "I Died on a Tuesday" (2024) Jane Corry

From Goodreads ~ THERE’S THE STORY EVERYONE BELIEVES ...

The victim: Eighteen-year-old Janie leaving home for a new life.

The criminal: World-famous rock star, Robbie, who harbours a shocking secret.

The protector: Witness support officer, Vanessa, desperate to right the wrongs of her past.

They tried to bury that fateful day. Now it’s back to haunt them.

... AND THEN THERE’S THE TRUTH.

Eighteen-year-old Janie was excited that she was heading off to London to start a new job and a new life. A couple days before she is going to leave she gets hit by a van and the occupants leave her for dead. She doesn't die but she is badly injured and ends up in a wheelchair, has memory issues and can't speak. Twenty years later someone is finally arrested for the hit and run. Everyone is shocked when it's Robbie, a beloved famous rock star. To avoid the publicity it will bring to his wife and children (plus a secret reason we find out later), he pleads guilty.

When I started this book, I found it interesting. Then it got ridiculous and farfetched but I stuck with it because I was too far into it and wanted to know how the ending would come together. I wasn't crazy about the writing style. The book is almost 500 pages and the writing have been tighter and less draggy.

There was A LOT going on in addition to the Robbie/Janie story. There were so many side stories and each could have been their own books. Vanessa was 69 and acted like she was 89. She'd been widowed three years earlier and still had conversations with Jack, her dead husband, and in her head he spoke back telling her what to do, which was unbelievable. In addition to being a volunteer support person for witnesses in court, she ended up having a complex side story when she found out Jack had kept a secret from her and she got sucked into that. Janie's mom had mental issues and had disappeared one day when Janie was younger. Everyone thought she took some drugs and drowned but Janie thought she was still alive and is determined to find her (before her accident her going on and on about her mother being still alive was tiring). Vanessa was friends with the judge trying Robbie's case and he had a secret of his own ... and he had conversations with a past love who lovingly talked back which was also unbelievable.

It's written in first person perspective in Janie's voice and third person perspective in Vanessa, Robbie and other's voices. I didn't like any of the characters and didn't care what happened to them. Robbie had a rough childhood but acted pathetic and entitled when he got to the prison awaiting his trial. I wasn't buying that Janie couldn't speak but could suddenly express herself by singing (huh?!) and remembered many details from the accident 20 years ago. As a head's up, there is swearing and violence.

Mandarin, Toronto, ON

I had a fun time with the Toronto Social Seniors and Retirees group at the Mandarin Restaurant (2200 Yonge Street) lunch event. 

Lots of yummy food and I met some nice people (there were about 20 of us)! Thanks to Liz for organizing us!

Honeycomb (aka Newfie) knitted mittens

I just finished knitting a pair of Honeycomb (aka Newfie) mittens to donate ... the colours are aqua and butter.

I used 4 ply yarn and 5mm double pointed needles.

Wrist

1. With A, cast on 42 sts
2. Knit 1, purl 1 for 18 rows
3. Purl
4. Purl, increasing 2 stitches on each needle for a total of 48 stitches

Pattern

1.  *Knit 4 with B, slip 2 purlwise with A*, repeat to the end of row
2. Repeat this row 4 more times (5 in total)
3. Purl 2 rows with A
4. Knit 1 with B, * slip 2 purlwise with A, knit 4 with B*, repeat to the last three stitches, knit 3 with B
5. Repeat this row 4 more times (5 in total)
6. Purl 2 rows with A
7.  *Knit 4 with B, slip 2 purlwise with A*, repeat to the end of row
8. Repeat this row 4 more times (5 in total)
9. Purl 2 rows with A
10. Knit 1 with B, * slip 2 purlwise with A, knit 4 with B*, repeat to the last three stitches, knit 3 with B
11. Repeat this row 4 more times (5 in total)
12. Purl 2 rows with A

Thumb

1. In step 12 above, purl 2, put 7 stitches on a stitch holder for the thumb and cast on 7 stitches, purl to the end.  Purl 1 row.

Mitten

1. Knit the pattern until long enough (I did 6)
2. Knit 1 row
3. *Knit 4, knit 2 together*, repeat to the end
4. Knit 2 rows
5. *Knit 3, knit 2 together*, repeat to the end
6. Knit 2 rows
7. *Knit 2, knit 2 together*, repeat to the end
8. Knit 2 rows
9. *Knit 2 together*, repeat to the end
10. Thread the yarn through remaining the loops and pull tight
11. Weave end inside

Thumb

1. With A, pick up the 7 stitches from the holder
2. Pick up 7 stitches around the thumb hole for a total of 14 stitches
3. Knit to fit length of thumb
4. Knit 2 together all around
5. Thread the yarn through the remaining loops and pull tight
6. Weave end inside

Book ~ "Shallow Grave" (2017) Alex Segura and Dave White

From Goodreads ~ Five years ago, Gilbert "GG" Garcia - bassist for beloved New Brunswick, NJ, indie band Magna Carta - went off the grid. At the request of GG's sister, P.I. Jackson Donne made some inquiries but hit a wall. Aside from allegations of mob involvement and illegal betting, the leads had dried up and GG was in the wind. Soon enough, the case went cold and Donne moved on. 

Five years later, Miami P.I. Pete Fernandez gets a frantic call from an old friend - a police detective stationed in his old stomping grounds of New Jersey - asking for a favor he can't discuss over the phone. Bruised and battered from a near-fatal run-in with a lethal serial killer, Pete welcomes the brief change of scenery. Or escape.

Pete discovers the GG case has frozen solid, with only one flicker of hope for solving it: talking to the first detective who tried to find the local-boy-gone-missing. But there's one problem: Jackson Donne is in prison for murder. Pulled into an uneasy alliance with the older jaded detective, Pete must pick up the pieces of Donne's work to learn the missing bassist's final fate, while also avoiding an unexpected mob turf war and locals who prefer the past stay buried.

Five years ago, New Jersey P.I. Jackson was investigating the disappearance of Gilbert "GG" Garcia, the bassist for a local indie band, and got nowhere. Five years later, GG's sister has never given up hope of finding her brother. She works with a police officer's wife and the police officer asks his friend and Miami P.I., Pete to reopen the case. Jackson is now in prison so Pete is basically on his own putting together the pieces of the cold case.

This is a novella involving Pete of the Pete Fernandez Mystery series by Alex Segura and Jackson of the Jackson Donne series by Dave White. I've read the first two in the Pete Fernandez series recently so knew Pete's backstory but wasn't familiar with Jackson's. It don't know if it was the combination of two writers' styles or the story itself but I found it a bit confusing and not very interesting. Maybe it would have helped if I'd read the Jackson Donne series books to catch up (I'm interested enough to check the first one in the series out). As a head's up, there is violence and swearing.

Book ~ "Down the Darkest Street" (2016) Alex Segura

From Goodreads ~ Pete Fernandez should be dead. His life - professional and personal - is in ruins. His best friend is dead. His newspaper career is past tense. His ex is staying with him as her own marriage crumbles. On top of that, the former journalist finds himself in the eye of a dangerous storm; investigating a missing girl with an unexpected partner and inching closer and closer to a vicious, calculating killer cutting a swath of blood across Miami - while at the same time battling his own personal demons that refuse to be silenced. 

Last year Pete wasn't happy working at a newspaper in Miami and ultimately got fired. With no job prospects, he tried working as a freelance private detective and is now working parttime in a friend's quiet bookstore. His personal life hasn’t been much better. Emily, the love of his life, left him a few years ago and married someone else. Now that marriage is falling apart and she’s moving in with Pete for a while, which is messing with his head and heart. Pete had been drinking heavily but a few months ago he realized he had to stop and started attending AA meetings.

When Alice, a former client from his brief PI days, goes missing, Pete can’t resist looking into it. Things get even more complicated when he discovers Emily’s marriage ended because her husband was having an affair with Alice. As more women begin to disappear, Pete teams up with Kathy, an ex-colleague from the newspaper, and the two of them find themselves getting pulled into the investigations. The FBI agents are giving them a hard time and telling them to stay out of it but, of course, they don't.

This is the second in the Pete Fernandez series (I read the first one in the series last week) and though I found the whodunnit a bit convoluted, I liked it. It works as a stand alone but I'd recommend you read the first one to get the background. It is written in third person perspective with the focus on Pete and the serial killer. There is a lot of violence ... it seems like Pete is getting beat up badly often but bounces back quickly. As a head's up, there is a lot of swearing.

Book ~ "Dinner with Edward: A Story of an Unexpected Friendship" (2016) Isabel Vincent

From Goodreads ~ When Isabel meets Edward, both are at a crossroads: he wants to follow his late wife to the grave and she is ready to give up on love. Thinking she is merely helping Edward’s daughter - who lives far away and asked her to check in on her nonagenarian dad in New York - Isabel has no idea that the man in the kitchen baking the sublime roast chicken and light-as-air apricot soufflé will end up changing her life.

As Edward and Isabel meet weekly for the glorious dinners that Edward prepares, he shares so much more than his recipes for apple galette or the perfect martini, or even his tips for deboning poultry. Edward is teaching Isabel the luxury of slowing down and taking the time to think through everything she does, to deconstruct her own life, cutting it back to the bone and examining the guts, no matter how messy that proves to be.

"Dinner with Edward" is a book about sorrow and joy, love and nourishment, and about how dinner with a friend can, in the words of M. F. K. Fisher, “sustain us against the hungers of the world.”

Edward was in his early 90s and had just lost his wife, Paula, of over 60 years. He wanted to join her in death but she had him promise that he wouldn't. So instead he's sadly living his life. Isabel's marriage is falling apart ... things are tense and she's unhappy. When Valerie, her oldest friend and one of Edward's daughters, becomes worried about him, she asks Isabel to check on him (Valerie lived in Toronto, his other daughter lived in Greece and Isabel and Edward lived in New York). Isabel does and that begins their friendship and their frequent dinners with Edward doing the elaborate cooking and them sharing stories about their lives.

I thought this story was okay. It was nice that they found each other in their times of need and became friends. It's written in first person perspective in Isabel's voice. I found Isabel and Edward a bit snooty at times, though. I know Edward was from a different generation but it was odd to have him advising her on how to better herself (telling her to wear more red lipstick, going fancy dress shopping with her, etc.) and Isabel going along with it. It would have been nice to have some photographs of them ... apparently Edward had tons in his apartment of his life with Paula.

Honeycomb (aka Newfie) knitted mittens

I just finished knitting a pair of Honeycomb (aka Newfie) mittens to donate ... the colours are orange and butter.

I used 4 ply yarn and 5mm double pointed needles.

Wrist

1. With A, cast on 42 sts
2. Knit 1, purl 1 for 18 rows
3. Purl
4. Purl, increasing 2 stitches on each needle for a total of 48 stitches

Pattern

1.  *Knit 4 with B, slip 2 purlwise with A*, repeat to the end of row
2. Repeat this row 4 more times (5 in total)
3. Purl 2 rows with A
4. Knit 1 with B, * slip 2 purlwise with A, knit 4 with B*, repeat to the last three stitches, knit 3 with B
5. Repeat this row 4 more times (5 in total)
6. Purl 2 rows with A
7.  *Knit 4 with B, slip 2 purlwise with A*, repeat to the end of row
8. Repeat this row 4 more times (5 in total)
9. Purl 2 rows with A
10. Knit 1 with B, * slip 2 purlwise with A, knit 4 with B*, repeat to the last three stitches, knit 3 with B
11. Repeat this row 4 more times (5 in total)
12. Purl 2 rows with A

Thumb

1. In step 12 above, purl 2, put 7 stitches on a stitch holder for the thumb and cast on 7 stitches, purl to the end.  Purl 1 row.

Mitten

1. Knit the pattern until long enough (I did 6)
2. Knit 1 row
3. *Knit 4, knit 2 together*, repeat to the end
4. Knit 2 rows
5. *Knit 3, knit 2 together*, repeat to the end
6. Knit 2 rows
7. *Knit 2, knit 2 together*, repeat to the end
8. Knit 2 rows
9. *Knit 2 together*, repeat to the end
10. Thread the yarn through remaining the loops and pull tight
11. Weave end inside

Thumb

1. With A, pick up the 7 stitches from the holder
2. Pick up 7 stitches around the thumb hole for a total of 14 stitches
3. Knit to fit length of thumb
4. Knit 2 together all around
5. Thread the yarn through the remaining loops and pull tight
6. Weave end inside

Book ~ "Silent City" (2013) Alex Segura

From Goodreads ~ Pete Fernandez is a mess. He's on the brink of being fired from his middle-management newspaper job. His fiancée has up and left him. Now, after the sudden death of his father, he's back in his hometown of Miami, slowly drinking himself into oblivion. 

But when a co-worker he barely knows asks Pete to locate a missing daughter, Pete finds himself dragged into a tale of murder, drugs, double-crosses and memories bursting from the black heart of the Miami underworld - and, shockingly, his father's past. 

Making it up as he goes and stumbling as often as he succeeds, Pete's surreptitious quest becomes the wake-up call he's never wanted but has always needed - but one with deadly consequences. 

Welcome to Silent City, a story of redemption, broken friendships, lost loves and one man's efforts to make peace with a long-buried past to save the lives of the few friends he has left.

Pete's life had promise. He and his fiancée were in love and he enjoyed his job at a newspaper in New Jersey. When his father unexpectedly passes away, they head to Miami to settle his father's affairs. But things start to fall apart ... they stay longer than planned, he and Emily break up and she marries someone else, he's not happy with his new job at a local newspaper and he's drinking a lot. 

When Chaz, a colleague he barely knows, asks him for a favour, Pete figures it would be a quick distraction. His daughter, Kathy, is an investigative reporter for the paper and he doesn't have a great relationship with her. Chaz thinks she has disappeared and he asks Pete to find out if she's okay. As Pete starts to check things out, he realizes something is amiss with Kathy. Concerned he keeps digging because no one else seems to be concerned. For a story, Kathy had been investigating a serial killer named Silent Death and she may be his latest victim.

This is the first book I've read by this author and I liked it. It is written in third person perspective with the focus on Pete. I liked Pete and felt kind of bad for him. His life was falling apart and it didn't seem like he really cared. He was still hung up on Emily and even though she had moved on, she still meets him and their good friend for drinks. On the plus side, he loves music and has a cat. As a head's up, there is violence and swearing. It's the first in the Pete Fernandez series and I look forward to reading the rest.

Happy birthday, Crumpet

Happy 14th birthday to my girl, Crumpet!

Toronto Blue Jays 5 ~ Washington Nationals 2, Rogers Centre, Toronto, ON

To celebrate Gord's birthday, we went to the Toronto Blue Jays game.

It was Vladimir Guerrero Jr. bobble head giveaway night to the first 15,000 attendees. We were surprised that we both got one ... usually giveaways are gone by the time we get there. But it was a Monday night after an opening weekend and there were only about 20,000 tickets sold.

Here we are ...

Gord and his bobble head

Me and Gord

It's too cold to have the roof open.

Earl's Kitchen + Bar, Toronto, ON

Gord and I had his birthday supper today at Earl’s Kitchen + Bar on King Street W (at Bathurst Street).

Gord had a Jumbo Lump Crab Cake (Caper remoulade, prawns, fennel salad).

Happy birthday, Gord!

Wishing my husband, Gord, a very happy birthday!

Happy birthday, Muffin!

Happy 7th birthday to my girl, Muffin!

"ELEPHANT", The Theatre Centre, Toronto, ON

Gord and I spent the afternoon volunteering as ushers at ELEPHANT, which is part of Game of Life, at The Theatre Centre on Queen Street W (just west of Dovercourt Road).

ELEPHANT brings you into a shared space with the performers, where the ripple effects of one life-changing event unfold. It’s honest and deeply human—blending personal stories, spontaneous moments, and heartfelt connections as the group navigates how to hold onto each other, find joy, and make sense of life. It’s part documentary, part lucid dream, and not entirely under control.

Storytelling, the Game of Life, singing, dancing and more! Participation from the audience was encouraged. Lots of fun! 

"Red", The Theatre Centre, Toronto, ON

Gord and I volunteered as ushers at the opening night of RED this evening at The Theatre Centre on Queen Street W (just west of Dovercourt Road).

 It's an intense story about painter Mark Rothko and Ken, his assistant, and the two actors did an excellent job. 

RED reflects on what it means to create a space for contemplation. What can art teach us about finding the balance? How can we use it to process complex emotions and work through our trauma? From prepping canvases and mixing pigments to their symbiotic dance of painting, Rothko and his new assistant, Ken, are weighed in the balance, challenging each other on art, life and what it means to be human.