Monday, April 26, 2010

Remembering my father

My father died 39 years ago today.

I was 8 years old. He was 36 years old.

He was in the navy and was on sick leave because he'd recently had a heart attack. My mother worked afternoons and evenings.

I came home from school and found him sleeping on the kitchen floor.

I went outside to play, as usual.

When all the other kids were called in for supper, I went in and found him still sleeping on the kitchen floor.

I tried to wake him up ... but he wouldn't wake up.

We lived in an apartment house and I went to Margaret, who lived in another apartment, and told her I couldn't wake up my daddy.

She went down to our place to check it out.

Alas, he never woke up again.

5 comments:

Swordsman said...

Where ever he is, and I know he must be in the good place as a defender of our country, I know he must be so proud of you. I wish I could have met him.

elizabeth said...

I hope the day is full of remembering good times and not the sad ones.

beerab said...

Gosh I'm so sorry- how traumatic for you. I can't imagine- you being so young and not realizing what was going on. *hugz*

Lord of the Wings said...

Such a sad story. Like Elizabeth said I hope the good memories are with you today.

Lady Banana said...

How awful it must have been for you to find your Father like that!